Please forthelove do not try and throw an epic party by yourself. It's a TERRIBLE idea.
Instead, recruit people you know who have something to offer. My friend Megan can make beautiful decorations out of anything (that's her Instagram account up there). My friend Melissa can style a table (or an entire event!) like a rock star. Sara takes beautiful photos. My sister Hannah (who I do a podcast with) can make a playlist that would rival T Bone Burnett's.
Creativity is always better with others. Let people make their art alongside you.